The strange thing during winter holidays comes to issues about faith in a relationship. -> being faithful to the person who is left behind, and at the same time trust him for his behaviour back and out there.
What if you are in love? Can you enjoy life and everything that comes in your way if you have recently fallen in love with someone who is not around you during holidays? Or is it the "missing" feeling that participates most in your life than the "having fun" feeling? And then again you could have fun, but do you trust him enough to believe he is faithfull to your relationship?
To me, i am glad cause i miss him, but honey, it's holidays!?! So let's get out there and have FUN free of worries and stuff like that!!